Win or Loose?

I found out that when you talk to others and find they do not share your thinkings and point of view about things. They even tell you that their thinkings are good and convince you about it. Unfortunately (or fortunately) you also believe in yourself too and you also want to convince them about your own thinkings and point of view too, then you would find you guys getting into a discussion, a tense one in order to convince the other that your thinkings are good.

But hey you guys, you talk with others around you, share with them your thinkings and feelings for what? To get closer to each other, to improve the relationship OR to prove that the other is wrong and you are right? But in the end, what's that for?

Remember, talking with each other is to understand more about each other, to get closer to each other, not to prove that the other is right or wrong, not to hurt the other and not to find out who wins and who looses. So if you guys talk, talk in a way which can help you guys get closer to each other,get you more understanding about the other at a deeper level. Do NOT hurt the other with your words.

Words can stay longer, much much longer than you thought. You think it's gone and even the other think it's gone, but it's still there. It still there and becomes a mark, a black mark on their memory about getting hurt.

And sometimes, "Sorry" means nothing when it's too late.