Thursday, December 21, 2006

How to care for a person?

The little boy was a cute disaster for his parents when he made his first step to learn how to walk. His parents then found him too active and they had to keep an eye on him all the time as otherwise, he would break something, he pull something down, or he would play with dangerous or dirty things. He's a nasty boy.

Five years old, he was sent to a kinder garten school and there he was, the real disaster to his teachers and his classmates. He always came home with some injures in his body and his clothes were always full of dirts. Fighting, pinching, jumping, digging... all kinds of nasty things he could do. His parents decided to apply a solution they could think of at that time. If he does not do anything to bother others or hurt himself in seven days, his dad would buy him an electricity car toy which is big enough for him to get in and drive around the house. The boy agreed and his parents were really surprised to see the change from their son.

For seven days, the peace was back for both the house and the class. At school, he was much nicer with his friends, did not do anything too actively. His clothes were not dirty anymore. After school, he just stayed home drawing, lots of green pictures with trees and houses, all green.

Even more to his father's surprise, when he was taken to the toy shop for the car, he refused the car and asked for a three-wheel bike with a little cabin pulling behind it.

He seemd to be another person, a much nicer and more gentle boy. His father found him often went out in Sunday morning with the bike and some fruit or food taken from the fridge. Everything kept going on for one more week and he decided to find out the truth.

He followed his son to the play-ground next door on next Sunday when the boy just left with the bike, some bananas from the fridge and a green picture. Standing behind a big tree, he saw his son stopped at a corner of the play yard and few mins later, a little girl walking to him, sat down on the bike next to the boy and they started eating bananas and enjoying the picture together.

Walking home, the father thinks this is so funny but decided not to tell his wife about their son's love story. The little boy became more and more gentle and nicer. However, he always went out on every Sunday morning and the fruit in the fridge was emptied fast. His father decided it's time for a talk.

The boy started telling his father about his gal:

-Do you really like her? asked his father.

-Yeah, we are classmates and we have our pillows and cups next to each other in the cupboard in the class. When we have a nap at school, I will get her pillow for her as it is put up high there and when we have desert at school she will get my cup for me as I put the cup in the very low storey of the cupboard. She only does small things and I do all the big things.

- Oh, that's cool. asked the father and thinking at the same time "Shit! My wife does all the houseworks at home!"

Then he kept asking his son:
- But you often eat her food at school right?

-Yeah, but because she does not have good teeth so she hates chewing. I always give her my soup then she doesnt have to chew.

-You will be going to primary school next year. You guys may not be going to the same school. Will you miss her?

A worrying look came into the boy's eyes and he was silent for two minutes, thinking of the best solution for his love story, then a smile brightened up his face:
- I will marry her, will you allow me?

At a moment, the father thought "Oh my God! Shit!! Shit!!", but he ended up asking his son:
- Then how would you guys travel around?
- I have the bike and she can sit in the cabin.
- But it would be hard for both of you when you have a baby!

Another silent worrying period for five minutes and the solution still found which really lighted up the boy:

-Ahh, I got it. She will lay an egg and I will send them into mom's freezer. I will work hard to save a lots of money. When we have enough money, she will have a baby from the egg! I will take a good care of her then she will not get tired at all.

The lesson learnt by the father from his own son, from his innocent thinkings but still full of love and cares.

When the man really cares about his woman, he will try his best to do what he can and he will really try to make an effort, no matter how hard to situation is!

Isnt it a great lesson for everybody? It takes an effort!

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