What Sorry means?

I dont know!

Sometimes, it means everything when you say sorry and then everything is healed.

Sometimes, it means nothing when you say sorry too much and too late and what you did and said before saying sorry has destroyed almost everything and nothing can be done now to heal the wound.

What respect means?

Sometimes, it is when you dont evaluate someone according to what you see, not to what you want to see.

Sometimes, it is when you love someone for the real person inside of them and for the way who they are, not for the one you want them to be.

Sometimes, it is when you see what they have tried to be with you and you are happy with it and you are proud of themself for themself, not for anyone else.

Why this happens? Keep hurting and then keep saying sorry. Until when?

How long does it take you to understand the real and deep meaning of love and mutual respect? It seems to take forever.

Is it time for me to think of self-respect? Trying doesnt help, never satisfy. Deep down inside, I know I dont deserve this.

I deserve better.

I know thorns are everywhere, and patience is required from both to overcome all thorns and get the rose after the thorns.

Just dont hurt each other with these thorns, ok?

There's a song for you to listen to at the title of this entry. Enjoy it!

Love and definition.

All of us have been trying to define what love is. Following is definition about love by kids from 4-8. Let's see what they and their definitions are about.

Love... is when someone hurts you, even you hurt terrible, you wont cry as you know it will hurt the person who has hurt you. (by Mathew,6)

Love... is when my Granny has athritics, and couldnt paint her nails, my Grandpa did it for her eventhough he had athritics too. (by Rebecca, 8)

Love... is when a girl uses perfume and a boy uses after shave, they go out and smell one another. (by Karl, 5)

Love... is when you know your sister loves you as she gives you all of her old clothes and has to go out and buy new. (by Lauren, 4)

Love... is when an old lady and an old man are still good friends together eventhough they have known each other for a long time. (by Tommy, 6)

Love... is when someone loves you, the way they say your name, it's different. (by Billy, 4)

Love... is when you go out and offer yoru potato chips to someone and without waiting for others to offer you his. (by Chrissy, 6)

Love... is what with us at Xmas, when you stop unwrapping your presents and listen to him. (by Bobby,5)

Love... is when you want to learn better, start with the friend you dont like. (by Nikka, 8)

Love... is when you tell someone something bad about yourself, and you are scared that, that person won't love you anymore and then that person surprises you by loving you even more. (by Samantha,7)

Love... is when Mommy sees Daddy all swetty and dirty, still tells him, you are still more handsome than Brad Pitt. (by Chrits,8)

Love... is when you tell a boy his wearing a beautiful shirt eventhough he 's wearing the same one everyday. (by Noelle,7)

Love... is NEVER say I love you only when we feel like it, and when we feel like it, then say it more often. People forgets to say I LOVE YOU. (by Jessica, 8)

Love... is when your dog licks your face eventhough you have left it all alone the whole day. (by Mary,4)

Love... is when you see someone, your eyes roll up and down, and there are little stars shining up from them. (by Karen,7 )

Now tell me your definition about love and we could see what it is about, ok?

Win or Loose?

I found out that when you talk to others and find they do not share your thinkings and point of view about things. They even tell you that their thinkings are good and convince you about it. Unfortunately (or fortunately) you also believe in yourself too and you also want to convince them about your own thinkings and point of view too, then you would find you guys getting into a discussion, a tense one in order to convince the other that your thinkings are good.

But hey you guys, you talk with others around you, share with them your thinkings and feelings for what? To get closer to each other, to improve the relationship OR to prove that the other is wrong and you are right? But in the end, what's that for?

Remember, talking with each other is to understand more about each other, to get closer to each other, not to prove that the other is right or wrong, not to hurt the other and not to find out who wins and who looses. So if you guys talk, talk in a way which can help you guys get closer to each other,get you more understanding about the other at a deeper level. Do NOT hurt the other with your words.

Words can stay longer, much much longer than you thought. You think it's gone and even the other think it's gone, but it's still there. It still there and becomes a mark, a black mark on their memory about getting hurt.

And sometimes, "Sorry" means nothing when it's too late.